"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am under the influence of oneitis, happens to everyone. I'm currently confused and would like your guys imput. Its been like a mounth and have got a few makeouts. Not so bad. I have deep rapport which is nice so I can talk to her about anything. Yesterday she said she feels like the dork in "Shes all that" and im the cool guy. She said that she feels she isn't good enough for me. She's crazy LSE and says I deserve better. Its like she doesn't like me but she does alot. I know I shound like a AFC but how do you deal with that? I'm baffeled.

Vincent? Matrix? Crazykid? BBB?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJUofS

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The old "Your too good for me" generally means she isn't interested in having a relationship with you.
 

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Did she just start saying you deserve better? or has she been saying it since the beginning? caus if she just started saying it, i'd regauge her LOI caus thats not a very good sign.

You said you have oneitis...maybe you shouldn't be talking to her then?iuno how bad it is...
leave this one for the real DJs..i'm not there yet :-/
 

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I'm the first guy she has ever done anything with. I get all the IOI's, but we go to different schools. Shes the shy hot dork and apparently I come off very confident. She said I have more confidence then her and 4 of her friends combined. So that throws me, but she is clearly attracted. I dunno.
 
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