The Diver
Master Don Juan
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^ This is the problem- Keeping doing the same things and expecting a deferent result.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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- Thread starter Ryan Adams
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
He's not pursuing though. His pattern is focusing on his purpose and not wasting time on females whose not in to him. Someone will choose him eventually. And after one there will be others.
Ryan Adams
Master Don Juan
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well I'm doing things much differently now. not over pursuing, not drooling at the mouth at one chick I like, trying to spin multiple plates etc I'm a work in progress yes but I am moving forward
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Your not at the Apex of your reality yet, but you see the light . It will all happen .
You sound like your confident enough I yourself to not let a "hot" chick jerk you around or waste your time .
Ryan Adams
Master Don Juan
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I'm definitely not at the apex but I am for sure learning more and more everyday.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.