"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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met and went out with this girl a few times, seemed very interested then quickly almost fell off the face of the earth, flaking twice then just not calling back.


I've read the forums before and no contact seems to be the right answer but thought i'd ask.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oh and last time i contacted her was early new years eve after she had wanted to meet up with me that night but then she never responded and i haven't tried since.
 
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You go NC not because you are hoping she will suddenly become interested again and get back to you, BUT because she is clearly showing you that she has low-no interest in you now.

The dates must have fizzled from her perspective, hence the lowered interest and her not getting back to you.


Figure out what you did wrong on the date and move on to the next.







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Pimp-sicle said:
You go NC not because you are hoping she will suddenly become interested again and get back to you, BUT because she is clearly showing you that she has low-no interest in you now.

The dates must have fizzled from her perspective, hence the lowered interest and her not getting back to you.


Figure out what you did wrong on the date and move on to the next.







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right, that was my thinking anyway.
 
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