Advice?

[Absolution_]

I met a girl (lets call her K) while on a date a few months ago, she was my dates friend. A few weeks later, after getting friendzoned with my original date (we'll call her M) because of my AFC ways, I got a text off M's phone saying "Heyy, it's K. I stole M's phone shh. What you doing? Wanna get together tonight?". I was asleep when I got it so i didn't get a chance and couldn't reply to M.

A few weeks later, I ran into K. I quickly went for a number close and it went great. Called her a week later and made plans but I couldn't make it. After the week she was showing a LOT of interest and we made a few date plans but I'd been extremely busy and they often fell through. This continued for a month but she'd still constantly text me asking when we would finally hang out.

Last Thursday we finally got a chance to hang out. I met her at her bus stop and we went to the mall and casually hung out for a few hours. It ended up being fairly boring, there was a fair bit of flirting but basically no kino. A week later (I'd been pretty busy with school) I talked to her but it seemed that ALL interest was gone. I know the date didn't go too well but to go from such a high interest level to such a low one in a week really surprised me.

Is there a way to get her interest level back up? If not I'll probably next her but this girl wanted to fvck me a week ago and yesterday would barely talk to me. So should I invite her to my friend's house party this week? Should I wait a while and ask her out in a few weeks? Should I just casually talk to her on FB to see if her interest will return (Can't see her in person)?

 

[War Against Betaism]

A girl's interest is very fragile; fvck up and you could lose it forever. I remember there was this girl that was all over my nuts one night and lost interest in me only a couple of minutes later, literally (let's say I did something really embarrassing that turned her off badly). As what you should do, invite her to the party anyways, fvck it, not just so you can get at her again, but use it as social proof; she'll most likely only know you at the party and will look to stick with you, and it's always a good thing that you're talking to a girl at a party to get other girl's to notice.

 

[Nino-Tk]

I Agree W.A.B..and yeah i have also had that experience,today infact! some chikita was basically all over me last week, i went to greet her today and lets jus say it seemed as if my presence disgusted her, i dont care anyway she wasnt the target

 

[LinkinParkROX]

I agree with WAB as well. If you want to get her back, kino's definitely your weapon of choice though. Learn a bit about it and escalation and take it from there. It's worked wonders for me time & time again, in the worst of friendzone situations.