"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Will900

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In the last 15 mins i have been speaking to a girl i met a while back. We started dating b4 xmas then she says she wasnt ready for a relationship so we have been friends since. But like i sed in the last 15 mins she has been talking to me about wot we went through. Then i asked her do u still like me? She said yes i do. The second she said that it was like Mike Tyson had blown my in the stomach. Then she asked me if i still like her and obviously i do, so i said yes. Then she said right im going now hun speak soon with 7 kisses. Shall i play it cool and hope something develops?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2Pac_Makaveli_1

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Play it cool, if she has your number wait for her to call / txt you / if nothing happens in a week or so, drop her a lil txt that in no way is sucking up to her, because then you will get into the fiasco of chasing after her and she will eventually feel she is worth more which is gay as f uck and will lead to disaster.

Just don't be a suck up, because you have more important things in ur life than fantasising over chicks all day man.
 
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Will900 said:
Shall i play it cool and hope something develops?
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I don't see why you shouldn't. What do you have to lose here? Play it cool, set something up with her, go out, practice your routine or whatever it is you do. Good luck. And please keep us updated, I say that alot on here but nobody ever gives any updates. We'd like to know if our advice worked for you or not.
 
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I don't see why you shouldn't. What do you have to lose here? Play it cool, set something up with her, go out, practice your routine or whatever it is you do. Good luck. And please keep us updated, I say that alot on here but nobody ever gives any updates. We'd like to know if our advice worked for you or not.
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I'm with you on that. +1
 
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Just do whatever it is that you've been doing. If that means calling her or texting her a few times a week do it. Don't try to overdo the whole playing it cool thing, but by the same token don't run off and call her 5x a day now. Whatever you've been doing recently is obviously working.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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2Pac_Makaveli_1 said:
Play it cool, if she has your number wait for her to call / txt you / if nothing happens in a week or so, drop her a lil txt that in no way is sucking up to her, because then you will get into the fiasco of chasing after her and she will eventually feel she is worth more which is gay as f uck and will lead to disaster.

Just don't be a suck up, because you have more important things in ur life than fantasising over chicks all day man.
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I agree. Will, be cool man and do not continue to write her. It makes you look desperate. If she is truly interested, she will contact you.

Meanwhile, talk to and kick it with other females and occupy yourself with things that will get her off your mind. I am not sure how old you are but you two sound very young. The reason why she probably wasn't ready for a relationship was because she was/is dealing with another guy (or multiple guys). Always have in the back of your mind that YOU are the man. Ya dig?
 
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