"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so im tryin to go out with this girl who seems to really like me but she just broke up with her ex and talks about him sometimes . shes obvinusly not over him but i dont think theyll go back out. her myspace says ' ill be waiting for u pedro' which is her ex but i dont know if she just put it there or if thats been up there . and she always wants to hang out and shes told me that she likes me. i just need some advice cuz i got no idea wat to do
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SHe wants you,if you want it,get it. NOW,as far as how long it will last? If it was a long term relationship,you may just be the rebound guy-guard your heart.
 
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u were right i went out with her and it seems like she wants to be my girlfreind .. but imma remember to guard my heart cuz it was a long relationship thanks for the good advice
 
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Ok..

So let me get this straight, she has something about waiting for her ex in her myspace?

Here's the deal -

If you don't mind being used as a rebound, go ahead. Realize that she is probably just using you to make her ex jealous. This should be purely about sex for you, not emotional.

If it is emotional, let this b!tch go right now. Because all she will do is use you, and spit you out once she has either baited her ex back or moved on.

I've seen my ex bait several dudes into spiting me, only to come back to me while she's still seeing them. Then she spits them out as soon as she realizes that I was worlds better than them.

Tread carefully
 
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You can go for it, but be well aware that it won't last long. Honestly I would suggest not doing anything with her. find somebody else for a while, then maybe come back to her if it seems she's moved past her ex.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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u guys really think i shouldnt do anything why wouldnt i just prove to her im better then her ex instead of waiting it out and if i am being used( not for money of course) who cares wat kind of guy doesnt like that
 
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