"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so im tryin to go out with this girl who seems to really like me but she just broke up with her ex and talks about him sometimes . shes obvinusly not over him but i dont think theyll go back out. her myspace says ' ill be waiting for u pedro' which is her ex but i dont know if she just put it there or if thats been up there . and she always wants to hang out and shes told me that she likes me. i just need some advice cuz i got no idea wat to do
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SHe wants you,if you want it,get it. NOW,as far as how long it will last? If it was a long term relationship,you may just be the rebound guy-guard your heart.
 
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u were right i went out with her and it seems like she wants to be my girlfreind .. but imma remember to guard my heart cuz it was a long relationship thanks for the good advice
 
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Ok..

So let me get this straight, she has something about waiting for her ex in her myspace?

Here's the deal -

If you don't mind being used as a rebound, go ahead. Realize that she is probably just using you to make her ex jealous. This should be purely about sex for you, not emotional.

If it is emotional, let this b!tch go right now. Because all she will do is use you, and spit you out once she has either baited her ex back or moved on.

I've seen my ex bait several dudes into spiting me, only to come back to me while she's still seeing them. Then she spits them out as soon as she realizes that I was worlds better than them.

Tread carefully
 
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You can go for it, but be well aware that it won't last long. Honestly I would suggest not doing anything with her. find somebody else for a while, then maybe come back to her if it seems she's moved past her ex.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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u guys really think i shouldnt do anything why wouldnt i just prove to her im better then her ex instead of waiting it out and if i am being used( not for money of course) who cares wat kind of guy doesnt like that
 
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