"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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so im tryin to go out with this girl who seems to really like me but she just broke up with her ex and talks about him sometimes . shes obvinusly not over him but i dont think theyll go back out. her myspace says ' ill be waiting for u pedro' which is her ex but i dont know if she just put it there or if thats been up there . and she always wants to hang out and shes told me that she likes me. i just need some advice cuz i got no idea wat to do
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SHe wants you,if you want it,get it. NOW,as far as how long it will last? If it was a long term relationship,you may just be the rebound guy-guard your heart.
 
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u were right i went out with her and it seems like she wants to be my girlfreind .. but imma remember to guard my heart cuz it was a long relationship thanks for the good advice
 
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Ok..

So let me get this straight, she has something about waiting for her ex in her myspace?

Here's the deal -

If you don't mind being used as a rebound, go ahead. Realize that she is probably just using you to make her ex jealous. This should be purely about sex for you, not emotional.

If it is emotional, let this b!tch go right now. Because all she will do is use you, and spit you out once she has either baited her ex back or moved on.

I've seen my ex bait several dudes into spiting me, only to come back to me while she's still seeing them. Then she spits them out as soon as she realizes that I was worlds better than them.

Tread carefully
 
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You can go for it, but be well aware that it won't last long. Honestly I would suggest not doing anything with her. find somebody else for a while, then maybe come back to her if it seems she's moved past her ex.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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u guys really think i shouldnt do anything why wouldnt i just prove to her im better then her ex instead of waiting it out and if i am being used( not for money of course) who cares wat kind of guy doesnt like that
 
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