"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oscarxp25

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Recently thanks to this site, I have been getting attendtion from girls. This one girl who usually dates bad boys likes me and I am getting nervours. When I first met her, I did not think I stood a chance and just was my funny self around her not thinking I would have a shot in hell. She is interested in me and thinks I am a good guy.

I know this sounds AFC of me but

I really am having a hard time seeing what she sees in me. I am a good guy, good education and would treat her well but I am not her type! She likes guys who treat her like **** and this is where I always get my game screwed up because I think, what does she see in me? Will she not like me if I do not treat her bad.


How do I kill the nervousness that has come to me all of a sudden
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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speakeasy

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Just imagine the feeling of sticking it in her. Play the role for a bit. If she's into bad boys, then she's not worth a sh*t in my opinion anyway. Totally disposable chic. Milk it for what you can. As the saying goes, "strike while the iron's hot", girls like this lose their interest VERY quickly.
 
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