"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oscarxp25

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Recently thanks to this site, I have been getting attendtion from girls. This one girl who usually dates bad boys likes me and I am getting nervours. When I first met her, I did not think I stood a chance and just was my funny self around her not thinking I would have a shot in hell. She is interested in me and thinks I am a good guy.

I know this sounds AFC of me but

I really am having a hard time seeing what she sees in me. I am a good guy, good education and would treat her well but I am not her type! She likes guys who treat her like **** and this is where I always get my game screwed up because I think, what does she see in me? Will she not like me if I do not treat her bad.


How do I kill the nervousness that has come to me all of a sudden
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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speakeasy

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Just imagine the feeling of sticking it in her. Play the role for a bit. If she's into bad boys, then she's not worth a sh*t in my opinion anyway. Totally disposable chic. Milk it for what you can. As the saying goes, "strike while the iron's hot", girls like this lose their interest VERY quickly.
 
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