"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oscarxp25

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Recently thanks to this site, I have been getting attendtion from girls. This one girl who usually dates bad boys likes me and I am getting nervours. When I first met her, I did not think I stood a chance and just was my funny self around her not thinking I would have a shot in hell. She is interested in me and thinks I am a good guy.

I know this sounds AFC of me but

I really am having a hard time seeing what she sees in me. I am a good guy, good education and would treat her well but I am not her type! She likes guys who treat her like **** and this is where I always get my game screwed up because I think, what does she see in me? Will she not like me if I do not treat her bad.


How do I kill the nervousness that has come to me all of a sudden
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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speakeasy

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Just imagine the feeling of sticking it in her. Play the role for a bit. If she's into bad boys, then she's not worth a sh*t in my opinion anyway. Totally disposable chic. Milk it for what you can. As the saying goes, "strike while the iron's hot", girls like this lose their interest VERY quickly.
 
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