heres my weird story. ive never been really good with girls, but now im much better, and being a naturally funny and intelligent guy helps. Also, not trying to be a show off, but id probably rack up a 9 on a 10 scale. Now heres the problem, i cant f***ing dance, i dont have many friends I could introduce to a girl im going out with and im new to the area, so i dont know the hotspots, or any spots for that matter. Anybody got some suggestions?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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