heres my weird story. ive never been really good with girls, but now im much better, and being a naturally funny and intelligent guy helps. Also, not trying to be a show off, but id probably rack up a 9 on a 10 scale. Now heres the problem, i cant f***ing dance, i dont have many friends I could introduce to a girl im going out with and im new to the area, so i dont know the hotspots, or any spots for that matter. Anybody got some suggestions?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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