youngprodigy
Don Juan
Only 19 so nothing available on my part. But curious to know what you experienced users would say
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Advice you'd give your teenage self
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
They only LOOK beautiful.
But, they are trash.
But, they are trash.
backseatjuan
Banned
Go to gym, get out more often, start a business.
lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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Build yourself and women will be there for you at all times, different kinds, with big boobs and small ones, young and outdated ones, puffed ****oris and not puffed ****oris ones. Please, build yourself.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
Dont chase em, replace em.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
spend as much time as you possibly can with all different types of women , you learn from them and interaction with them becomes so much easier
they all follow pretty much the same script and once you work that out you have the keys to Pandora box
id also wish i could give myself all the knowledge i have now , but obviously that comes with experience over the years so impossible
they all follow pretty much the same script and once you work that out you have the keys to Pandora box
id also wish i could give myself all the knowledge i have now , but obviously that comes with experience over the years so impossible
Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
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Major in engineering, computer, or business analytics.
Educate myself that the path to wealth isn't becoming a lawyer, doctor, or high tier business job portrayed on tv
Consider the military or community college
Accept that you are a black man and that it will stick with you
Quit assuming other people have it good based on how they present
Most of society is bullshhvt, you were fed mostly bs about life
Educate myself that the path to wealth isn't becoming a lawyer, doctor, or high tier business job portrayed on tv
Consider the military or community college
Accept that you are a black man and that it will stick with you
Quit assuming other people have it good based on how they present
Most of society is bullshhvt, you were fed mostly bs about life
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The words of a man who's not getting laid...
Labelling all women "trash" (or garbage...in another post) is simply a buffer against rejection (see The Rational Male: Buffers)
The poster's not willing to develop his introverted antisocial personality and put himself out there and risk being rejected.....much
easier to sit at home in the comfortable cocoon of his dingy bedroom in front of his computer screen and judge your failure
with women down to the fact that all women are "trash"......
...this in turn leads to delusional thinking and a smug sense of self importance i.e He thinks his ****e don't stink. The "I'm too good for them
mentality, so why should I even bother"
When our wounds are revealed to us it allows for the possibility of growth.
No need for a thank you card.
Now listen up Wolf Cub! You have got your head in the mud and your ass in the air and if you don't pull your head up then you are going to get royally ****ed up that ass by a prison cell mate called life!
All of that **** that you have been carrying around on those tired young shoulders.. let it go. The **** doesn't belong to you.. It belongs to the Adults around you that are ruled by Fear, Obligation, Guilt and Regret.
Fear nothing but failure, Be obliged to none other than yourself, Don't feel guilty for speaking your own mind and if you fail.. then get up and try again only harder. Trust your instincts and you will never live a day of regret in your life! Never give up and never lose sight of who you are because one day you will be a corpse and the world will just keep on spinning.
Don't swallow the Feminist agenda that flows heavily through your family and always stand up for you. Never put ***** on a pedestal or make a woman the queen of your Kingdom unless you want to serve as her peasant. So relax, have fun and use condoms!
I think that covers it.. mostly
All of that **** that you have been carrying around on those tired young shoulders.. let it go. The **** doesn't belong to you.. It belongs to the Adults around you that are ruled by Fear, Obligation, Guilt and Regret.
Fear nothing but failure, Be obliged to none other than yourself, Don't feel guilty for speaking your own mind and if you fail.. then get up and try again only harder. Trust your instincts and you will never live a day of regret in your life! Never give up and never lose sight of who you are because one day you will be a corpse and the world will just keep on spinning.
Don't swallow the Feminist agenda that flows heavily through your family and always stand up for you. Never put ***** on a pedestal or make a woman the queen of your Kingdom unless you want to serve as her peasant. So relax, have fun and use condoms!
I think that covers it.. mostly
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bed as many girls as you can and want. Don't get into serious relationships. Do well in school. Get involved in projects outside of school to learn valuable skills.
Think long term with regards to your life planning and goals (Health and fitness, financial education and finances, personal development etc).....things within your circle of influence
Think short term with regards to women.......essentially fickle creatures and outside of your direct circle of influence....
Educate yourself financially. i.e. learn how money works and make it work for you long term. Financial freedom is your aim.
Your body is a temple.....treat it as such. Eat right and always stay in pristine condition.
Take up a passion/hobby and master it. A martial art or a musical instrument for example.
Travel as much as possible......travel is the one thing you can spend money on and it will make you rich....
View all relationships as temporary. Always have the mindset that "this will end one day, through rejection or death. And I'm at peace with that."
Always dress well.
Learn the art of detachment. Over attachment to things, people and ideas leads to suffering.
Think short term with regards to women.......essentially fickle creatures and outside of your direct circle of influence....
Educate yourself financially. i.e. learn how money works and make it work for you long term. Financial freedom is your aim.
Your body is a temple.....treat it as such. Eat right and always stay in pristine condition.
Take up a passion/hobby and master it. A martial art or a musical instrument for example.
Travel as much as possible......travel is the one thing you can spend money on and it will make you rich....
View all relationships as temporary. Always have the mindset that "this will end one day, through rejection or death. And I'm at peace with that."
Always dress well.
Learn the art of detachment. Over attachment to things, people and ideas leads to suffering.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
All the girls your age are going to be old and fat when you're 40, but when you are that old, you can get one much younger.
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Still a teen but I wish I could have told myself a few years ago to do away with religion, at least for a while. That was one of my biggest inhibitors for a dream I am not sure I'm still able to achieve. 
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sazc
Master Don Juan
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I did religion when I was 11,12,13. It was great for my self esteem. Just when I was feeling really lost and unloved, I felt like I belonged.Still a teen but I wish I could have told myself a few years ago to do away with religion, at least for a while. That was one of my biggest inhibitors for a dream I am not sure I'm still able to achieve.
I am not a believer, haven't been for some time, but dont regret spending a few years on it.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
Just go for girl 2. Find out what those unforgettable titties really looked, felt and tasted like. Take her virginity.
Otherwise stop caring. Forgot about girls 1 and 3. 1 is clearly damaged and 3 is a chav disguised as an emo. Focus on your studies more but don't forget to hang out with your buddies and try to get to know them more deeply. You have some good adventures together anyway. Try to keep that up.
Also hit the actual gym and do a weekly martial art instead of 'working out' at home, it's not that scary, no one even talks to you unless you seem like you want them to.
Otherwise stop caring. Forgot about girls 1 and 3. 1 is clearly damaged and 3 is a chav disguised as an emo. Focus on your studies more but don't forget to hang out with your buddies and try to get to know them more deeply. You have some good adventures together anyway. Try to keep that up.
Also hit the actual gym and do a weekly martial art instead of 'working out' at home, it's not that scary, no one even talks to you unless you seem like you want them to.
Doctor Europeo
Moderator
Start a business
youngprodigy
Don Juan
Real interesting stuff
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.