"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Advice with asking this girl's numb#r (again)

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Alright I made a thread a while back about how my one friend ****blocked me while pulling this girl'snumber, but I'll refresh the story anyway:

This girl that I know from school also takes the public bus with me sometimes, so I asked her for her number during passing period (one of the only times I see her during school). She happily obliged, and had just accepted my phone and was entering her digitzz when this stupid kid came in and made a big deal about her giving her number.....she got embarrassed, ran away WITHOUT giving me her number.

So I'm like FVCK. I've decided not to mention it at all when I see her, but all this week I haven't seen her on the bus, but w/e I think its stupid to wait to talk to her anyway. But the only other times I've seen her in school is passing period, and the only time I talked to her---well she initiated convo with me---,she was flocked by AFC vultures. I happily told her I had bought her friend a bagel, and I didnt buy her anything...yea kinda random I know hah


Anyway. What My dilemma is, is asking for her number again. My friends have to me to fvck that b1tch and ignore her completely, that if she really wanted to give me her # she wouldnt care if another guy was there...but I'm leaning towards giving her the benefit of the doubt with being shy. My friends are sort of AFC anyway, only being able to pull HOs or girls way younger. (they've suggested I pull her friend's # right in front of her next time we all take the bus, which is a funny concept but sort of stupid..)


So yea SoSuave. I need a little help with this situation. I'm sure that I'm going to ask her number again, but how do you go about that? Last time I didnt make a big deal about it, I just straight up told her, "HB7 you and I only ever get to talk on the bus, so let me get your digits ho!" How would I go about getting hers again? In a way I didnt show all that much interest in how I approached getting her # but w/eeee I'm not gonna overanalyze it.....thanks SS, need advice


<-----by the way, I didnt actually call her a ho haaa... I told her that I only get to see her on the bus, and I'd like to talk to her more
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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just talk to her and then tell her to put the digits in your phone......if she refuses then just nxt her
 

WalkingStick

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Next time you talk to her, tell her she should give you her number. That's it.
 

faiNt`

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Getting a number isn't exactly the hardest thing. You just tell her to give you it.
 

Park

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Just ask her number again when ever u see her, maybe she got scared because of this stupid kid, ur overanalyzing. If SHE wanted your number one time, SHE wants it NOW 100% !! Go for it soldier!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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