"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Advice with asking this girl's numb#r (again)

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Alright I made a thread a while back about how my one friend ****blocked me while pulling this girl'snumber, but I'll refresh the story anyway:

This girl that I know from school also takes the public bus with me sometimes, so I asked her for her number during passing period (one of the only times I see her during school). She happily obliged, and had just accepted my phone and was entering her digitzz when this stupid kid came in and made a big deal about her giving her number.....she got embarrassed, ran away WITHOUT giving me her number.

So I'm like FVCK. I've decided not to mention it at all when I see her, but all this week I haven't seen her on the bus, but w/e I think its stupid to wait to talk to her anyway. But the only other times I've seen her in school is passing period, and the only time I talked to her---well she initiated convo with me---,she was flocked by AFC vultures. I happily told her I had bought her friend a bagel, and I didnt buy her anything...yea kinda random I know hah


Anyway. What My dilemma is, is asking for her number again. My friends have to me to fvck that b1tch and ignore her completely, that if she really wanted to give me her # she wouldnt care if another guy was there...but I'm leaning towards giving her the benefit of the doubt with being shy. My friends are sort of AFC anyway, only being able to pull HOs or girls way younger. (they've suggested I pull her friend's # right in front of her next time we all take the bus, which is a funny concept but sort of stupid..)


So yea SoSuave. I need a little help with this situation. I'm sure that I'm going to ask her number again, but how do you go about that? Last time I didnt make a big deal about it, I just straight up told her, "HB7 you and I only ever get to talk on the bus, so let me get your digits ho!" How would I go about getting hers again? In a way I didnt show all that much interest in how I approached getting her # but w/eeee I'm not gonna overanalyze it.....thanks SS, need advice


<-----by the way, I didnt actually call her a ho haaa... I told her that I only get to see her on the bus, and I'd like to talk to her more
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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just talk to her and then tell her to put the digits in your phone......if she refuses then just nxt her
 

WalkingStick

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Next time you talk to her, tell her she should give you her number. That's it.
 

faiNt`

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Getting a number isn't exactly the hardest thing. You just tell her to give you it.
 

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Just ask her number again when ever u see her, maybe she got scared because of this stupid kid, ur overanalyzing. If SHE wanted your number one time, SHE wants it NOW 100% !! Go for it soldier!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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