Advice? What to do in my situation...

[dap]

I'm a college undergraduate, and I don't really care too much about girls. I have plenty of fun without them and am going to med school soon. However, recently I've realized that it would be pretty nice to have a list of girls I can hook up with after a night at the bars; or it would be nice to get some womanizing skills so I can work game on new girls that I meet.

Here is more detail on my background and my problem:
I am a pretty well liked guy, by both guys and girls. I may come off as a bit opinionated, and at times perhaps a little arrogant (this is mostly in front of guys). I dress well, I workout, I have a positive outlook for my future, I am intelligent, in my opinion I am above-average looking, I am fairly funny (although most my humor is sarcasm), I like to have a good time, and I am very focused. However, now I want to start hooking up with girls on a regular basis and I don't really know where to start. I was kind of hoping that since I am the things above, that girls would be naturally attracted to me, but it seems like I need to give some extra effort to escalate things to the next level. What's a good first move to put myself on these girls' radar? I'm not sure how girls think of me... they may think that I am too smart, or that I am too opinionated, or maybe just that I'm not interested in them (because I haven’t been for quite awhile). I also tend to have a problem of having too high of standards (I think) when it comes to women I will hook up with. Usually, if I can’t see myself marrying them, I won’t hook up with them (unless I'm wasted, hah).

Your thoughts?

 

[MisterNigma]

First forget about marrying.

Second, considering the things you mentioned in your post, just start approaching girls.

Unless you're superstar handsome, girls will not come after you. Go after them.

Good Luck,


-E.Nigma

 

[Last Man Standing]

Girls do NOT approach boys unless they are desperate or slutty to the max!!

Start approaching and showing them what you have to offer -- since you are "ALL THAT" you mention.

 

[vincent40]

so what's the problem, pal? so find a girl u want to marry and hook up with her. u don't need to marry her for real. or what, too scared that a woman of your dreams won't like u? and what, u expected if u work out girls will hang onto u like grapes? what re u, stupid? there 're hundreds and hundreds of men with degrees, careers, money and plus to that they work out too. so what chances do u have? u re a student - no money. nobody knows about your future creer - maybe u will end up unemployed. so stick it up with your "high standards", go and try anyone, anyone at all, maybe u re flattering yourself while looking at the mirror. good luck pal

 

[dap]

Ha, thanks a lot vincent.