Before I begin with the situation at hand, I think a little backstory is needed. Keeping this as short as possible there was this girl that worked in the CVS (pharmacy/drug store) here in my town about a year ago that I always thought was very attractive. Well after going to a notre dame football game she developed the pics and we had some small talk about how she liked them as well, etc. A couple weeks later it was gameday again and I was there and she asked me if I was going to the game I said "no not this time" and was on my way. That was the last time I saw her working as she quit when she went away to college. And looing back I've always thought I had missed that 1 big time. Fast forward to now and I was sending a message to 1 of my friends on facebook and saw that she had left a comment so I just figured what the heck and sent her a message. After a couple messages back and forth I had asked her what she was going to be doing since she's home for christmas and she responded with "hanging out w/ friends, going to the bar in town, freaking out about an interview for a job" that sort of thing. I want to send a message back asking her to do something, but I guess since I've never gotten to know her really and don't want to sound desperate, since it is facebook. I'm wondering how I should go about that? Any suggestions?
Or possibly if you met a girl at a wedding last summer and kept in contact with them but scheduales kept you from ever going out until now, what to say tostrike that back up? But that's a whole different story that would make this post even longer. But I'm not sure if she was "just being nice" but as someone who went through student teaching, I know when she went through that it is very busy and does take up all your time. Thoughts on that 1 as well would be appreciated.
Or possibly if you met a girl at a wedding last summer and kept in contact with them but scheduales kept you from ever going out until now, what to say tostrike that back up? But that's a whole different story that would make this post even longer. But I'm not sure if she was "just being nice" but as someone who went through student teaching, I know when she went through that it is very busy and does take up all your time. Thoughts on that 1 as well would be appreciated.
