"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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advice plz

dearsappho

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Met bird at work (HB9)...went out last night, all over me. she wanted it, but got a ****block from her m8s. Asked to see me today when leaving, but cancelled at last minute today. Excuse = wrapping presents for her mother.

Next her? Shes gorgeous mind...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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tibbetts

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Was she drunk when she was all over you? Wrapping presents for her mother? Come on! That's a lame excuse.
 

S0LID

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just leave her for a bit, until she txts u, leave it 2 weeks, and try again if she doesnt txt.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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people always say next her when there is nothing to loose by giving her 1 more chance. You always say oh you can cold approch what have you got to loose, well im saying now you cna give her 1 more chance because what have you got to loose.

but i must agree that it is a lame excuess and does seem like she says it because she is not intrested, never underestimate the power of persuasion from her freinds, thats probably why she is not intrested.
 
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Did you say you met her at:

YOUR FAWKING JOB?????????

Ok somebody needs to add to the bible the facts about how lame it is to date at work!!!!

cause at work where there's smoke you might get fired!
 

So Many Ways

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Player Supreme is correct, messing around with women at your job is a terrible idea.

At any rate, take the woman off of the pedestal you put her on. So what if she's fine, there are fine women everywhere. How does that saying go, for every fine woman, there is some dude that's tired of taking her sh!t.

Second of all, go holler at other women. Having a backup or two takes the pressure off and will make you more relaxed when dealing with women, since you know that if it doesn't work out, you got a couple more women waiting on deck.
 
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