You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Say yes and she was great and all over youds1ur1f said:well i havent responded yet and i definitely dont wanna play dumb so how should i go about this.
I like this idea.strey said:you tell her yes and it sucked and you want to try it again but sober
ds1ur1f said:i dont know if this has happened to anyone, but i slept with my friend the other night(we were both hammered) and she just myspaced me this:
Dude, did we have sex?
how do i respond to that?
That was totally mean.. and alittle gay too.LAWYER said:Why dont you just give us your balls and your manhood... haha:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"Yes, I came in you several times, you really should take an EPT test as soon as possible."ds1ur1f said:i dont know if this has happened to anyone, but i slept with my friend the other night(we were both hammered) and she just myspaced me this:
Dude, did we have sex?
how do i respond to that?
You: What? Was that you?ds1ur1f said:iDude, did we have sex?