"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hey guys. lols my old thread like disappeared. but anywayz theres this girl tat i used to like. i dun like her anymore but i can definitely see some potential in a relationship. we have made eye contact a couple times by accident (and some that werent :) ) i always try to hold it for a bit. not too long , but jes enuf for her to notice. should i hold it on for longer or shorter lols? i think if i hold it for too long shell think im weird. and if i hold it on for too little time she wont even really notice. well anywayz i have one slight problem lols. i noticed that she hangs around and prolly flirts wif ALOTTA guys. i dunno if she actually is flirting with them or wut. but for example today i saw her in the arms of my friend. and they were like locking arms for a LONG time and she kept like laughing and doin other things that show interest. but the thing is she does that wif alot of guys... so i dunno if she would be interested in me from reading signs and i also dont know if trying to get with her is the best idea... i walked her home the other day alone for like a couple of blocks. before i was with a friend and didnt say much. (maybe i should speak up frmo now on?) i didnt do any kino or anythin and i think i should lols....any advice guys?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This happened to me a while ago, she used to flirt with me a lot, and I'd use Kino on her (although at the time I didn't know what Kino was :p ) and she'd go and hang around other guys. My advice to you is just don't worry about it. It's far too much trouble and it'll save you a lot less pain in the future :)

There are plenty more out there, really. If you're at a gym, it's a lot easier too ;)
 
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How old are you, 10? Post like a mature man.

"lolxP", your blowing your chances with this girl. your acting like a friend to her, and she views you as one.

what are the other guys doing that are able to have kino with her? think about that; they are shy, from what i can tell, but have enough balls to actually show some level of interest.

all your doing is acting like a SHY AFC. bring some positive attitude into your life if you want some positive success.

start kino, go for a kiss, do something that will show your uniqueness. you dont want her to view you as SOME guy, you want her to view you as THE guy.
 
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I don't mean to hijack the thread...but what do all the acronyms mean...?

AFC? LJFR (or something I can't remember)
 
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PleasureKing said:
How old are you, 10? Post like a mature man.
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HAHA, my thoughts exactly...I couldn't even get through the first sentence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigw said:
I don't mean to hijack the thread...but what do all the acronyms mean...?

AFC? LJFR (or something I can't remember)
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AFC= Average Frustrated Chump

LJBF= Lets Just Be Friends
 
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well u guys seem to know this type of girl. any types of kino recommendations? hahas today i tried palm reading on another girl i might be interested in. lols im interested in quite a plenty. too bad i forgot wut some of the lines meant =(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Give him a break guys, we're here to help him :)

lolxP, it does help if you talk clearly, because then we can address your problem / give you help as best we can. In the future, try to do that, it will help us and you more effectively.

It seems you're getting the hang of kino. Good work.
 
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lol alright ill type more clearly from now on. yeh im gettin used to kino. altho i dont quite get when im supposed to use it and how much of it in certain situations. for example, i recently hung out with a girl and two other people. i never met the girl before and didnt know wut type of kino to use. we were eating at a restaurant and the girl sat in front of me. so i would have seemed really weird if i tried to touch her out of nowhere. later we hung out at a friends house and i used some kino, but not much. any tips for situations like these?
 
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