"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dustmuffin

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I have season tickets to Oklahoma State Football. My son can't go with me because he is sick. So I am trying to round up someone to go with me. I send a short text to a girl I haven't seen in two years. She had the hots for me years ago but I couldn't act because I was married at the time. Anyway i invited her to the game and called her a whiner. She could not go because she was doing some freelance video work, but she sent me a book OMG what a long text. How it was good to hear from me we should get together ect. Should I try to get a date or just forget it. I might try to voice call her next week. I didn't reply to her text.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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fastlife

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OK, imagine there's a girl you really liked--tons of sexual tension--but she had a boyfriend at the time. You don't hear from her for a couple years--and out of the blue she invites you to a knitting class.

That's what you just pulled on this chick.

Invite her to the house next time.
 
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