"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dustmuffin

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Okay I was just dumped from a year long relationship. I have three dates lined up already. Should I go? I know this sounds wussyish. The one tonight is probably 99% sure I will get laid. Still feel like crap and depressed.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You will feel like crap for a while, after breaking up with a companion...The way out is to meet some *new* companions! And not just 1: Several...spread yourself around, watch, learn and have fun. What else you gonna do, bro? Sit around and feel sorry for yourself? GO OUT! Good luck!
 

marmel75

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Banging a new ho will make you forget a lot quicker...
 

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I'd be more excited about having 3 dates lined up. Think about it, 3 new potential bodies you've yet to "explore." I almost wish I was in your position.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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Well guys....My date just left. She gives excellent head. I met her at a coffee shop. We talked for about 20 mins and I said com'on lets got to my place. She did. Am I thinking about my old GF? Only that she was piss poor in the sack. SO this experience was an excellent confidence booster. I feel great!
 

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LoL! Good for you! Amazing how the bullsheet just washes away when a woman is going down on you, isn't it? Keep up the good work........
 
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