Advice please

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

sph21

Senior Don Juan

Jul 30, 2017

You could attract beautiful women but a week later they dumped you. There's only one possible reason why they did this: you're too desperate.

These are 4 golden posts from DJ Bible that I recommend every desperate guy to read:

Kill that desperation!
THE TEN COMMANDMENTS
Fifteen Lessons
Be a Man!

I can't give you hyperlinks because I'm on mobile phone. Look them up at DJ Bible yourself.

Those are some lengthy posts. Read them slowly & try to apply them to your life.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.