Advice please

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

sph21

Senior Don Juan

Jul 30, 2017

You could attract beautiful women but a week later they dumped you. There's only one possible reason why they did this: you're too desperate.

These are 4 golden posts from DJ Bible that I recommend every desperate guy to read:

Kill that desperation!
THE TEN COMMANDMENTS
Fifteen Lessons
Be a Man!

I can't give you hyperlinks because I'm on mobile phone. Look them up at DJ Bible yourself.

Those are some lengthy posts. Read them slowly & try to apply them to your life.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.