Advice please

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

sph21

Senior Don Juan

Jul 30, 2017

You could attract beautiful women but a week later they dumped you. There's only one possible reason why they did this: you're too desperate.

These are 4 golden posts from DJ Bible that I recommend every desperate guy to read:

Kill that desperation!
THE TEN COMMANDMENTS
Fifteen Lessons
Be a Man!

I can't give you hyperlinks because I'm on mobile phone. Look them up at DJ Bible yourself.

Those are some lengthy posts. Read them slowly & try to apply them to your life.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.