"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So about a week ago I started messaging this girl on Facebook. She told me her Facebook was slow and gave me her number to text her. So we texted quite a bit and the topic of homecoming and dresses came up. So the next day I went and bought flowers and asked her to homecoming ( keep in mind we don't talk much at school mainly texting). She said of course when I asked her so I thought of that as a good sign. The last 2 days I message her and it takes 2+ hours to respond. If I text her at night time sometime she won't respond at all. She has told me one night "oh" I thought I sent you a message, and then another one during day saying "oh" I had messaged typed out I just forgot to send. I sent her a message today saying hey, 2 hours later she texts back saying hey. I said what's up and have not got response since then. Is this good or bad? I like her but not sure if she likes me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well OP, idk wtf happened, but seems like you've lost her, you had her and then for no reason things got all inverted and now it seems like she can barely stand you.

that's all BS, btw, maybe something like that happening once in a while is true, but if she actually cared at all, she'd be extra careful to make sure she responded to you, she's lying to you OP.

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boy, do you troll every poster? lol.
 

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You can't seriously expect me to believe this??
 

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No.Danny said:
You can't seriously expect me to believe this??
are you under the impression that people asking for advice have any idea what they're doing?

if I knew how to bake a cake... why would I ask you how?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here ya go

Sounds like a case of "she lost interest"

a main thing to remember when talking to women, is that, if you are not the main center of attention to them at that moment, they'll find someone who can be their center of attention?

Well, how do I be the center of attention?

Great question.

Mostly, just have an "Alpha Male" mindset about you.

This will include traits such as

1: Eye contact
2: Smiling
3: Friendly flirts (Winking, subtle touches)

Once you have that mindset ready to work, you need to talk to her in person.

*WOAH ARE YOU CRAZY*

Not at all, you need to talk to this woman.

So, when you first see her and you get eye contact, hold it for a bit longer than normal, smile at the same time wave. Then walk up and have a conversation.

Keep the conversation light, mostly involving humor and fun stories if relevant.

Bro, you can still bag this lady, you just need to step your game up a tad.
 
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