"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So about a week ago I started messaging this girl on Facebook. She told me her Facebook was slow and gave me her number to text her. So we texted quite a bit and the topic of homecoming and dresses came up. So the next day I went and bought flowers and asked her to homecoming ( keep in mind we don't talk much at school mainly texting). She said of course when I asked her so I thought of that as a good sign. The last 2 days I message her and it takes 2+ hours to respond. If I text her at night time sometime she won't respond at all. She has told me one night "oh" I thought I sent you a message, and then another one during day saying "oh" I had messaged typed out I just forgot to send. I sent her a message today saying hey, 2 hours later she texts back saying hey. I said what's up and have not got response since then. Is this good or bad? I like her but not sure if she likes me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well OP, idk wtf happened, but seems like you've lost her, you had her and then for no reason things got all inverted and now it seems like she can barely stand you.

that's all BS, btw, maybe something like that happening once in a while is true, but if she actually cared at all, she'd be extra careful to make sure she responded to you, she's lying to you OP.

No.Danny said:
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boy, do you troll every poster? lol.
 

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You can't seriously expect me to believe this??
 

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No.Danny said:
You can't seriously expect me to believe this??
are you under the impression that people asking for advice have any idea what they're doing?

if I knew how to bake a cake... why would I ask you how?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Here ya go

Sounds like a case of "she lost interest"

a main thing to remember when talking to women, is that, if you are not the main center of attention to them at that moment, they'll find someone who can be their center of attention?

Well, how do I be the center of attention?

Great question.

Mostly, just have an "Alpha Male" mindset about you.

This will include traits such as

1: Eye contact
2: Smiling
3: Friendly flirts (Winking, subtle touches)

Once you have that mindset ready to work, you need to talk to her in person.

*WOAH ARE YOU CRAZY*

Not at all, you need to talk to this woman.

So, when you first see her and you get eye contact, hold it for a bit longer than normal, smile at the same time wave. Then walk up and have a conversation.

Keep the conversation light, mostly involving humor and fun stories if relevant.

Bro, you can still bag this lady, you just need to step your game up a tad.
 
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