"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So about a week ago I started messaging this girl on Facebook. She told me her Facebook was slow and gave me her number to text her. So we texted quite a bit and the topic of homecoming and dresses came up. So the next day I went and bought flowers and asked her to homecoming ( keep in mind we don't talk much at school mainly texting). She said of course when I asked her so I thought of that as a good sign. The last 2 days I message her and it takes 2+ hours to respond. If I text her at night time sometime she won't respond at all. She has told me one night "oh" I thought I sent you a message, and then another one during day saying "oh" I had messaged typed out I just forgot to send. I sent her a message today saying hey, 2 hours later she texts back saying hey. I said what's up and have not got response since then. Is this good or bad? I like her but not sure if she likes me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well OP, idk wtf happened, but seems like you've lost her, you had her and then for no reason things got all inverted and now it seems like she can barely stand you.

that's all BS, btw, maybe something like that happening once in a while is true, but if she actually cared at all, she'd be extra careful to make sure she responded to you, she's lying to you OP.

No.Danny said:
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boy, do you troll every poster? lol.
 

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You can't seriously expect me to believe this??
 

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No.Danny said:
You can't seriously expect me to believe this??
are you under the impression that people asking for advice have any idea what they're doing?

if I knew how to bake a cake... why would I ask you how?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Here ya go

Sounds like a case of "she lost interest"

a main thing to remember when talking to women, is that, if you are not the main center of attention to them at that moment, they'll find someone who can be their center of attention?

Well, how do I be the center of attention?

Great question.

Mostly, just have an "Alpha Male" mindset about you.

This will include traits such as

1: Eye contact
2: Smiling
3: Friendly flirts (Winking, subtle touches)

Once you have that mindset ready to work, you need to talk to her in person.

*WOAH ARE YOU CRAZY*

Not at all, you need to talk to this woman.

So, when you first see her and you get eye contact, hold it for a bit longer than normal, smile at the same time wave. Then walk up and have a conversation.

Keep the conversation light, mostly involving humor and fun stories if relevant.

Bro, you can still bag this lady, you just need to step your game up a tad.
 
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