Advice Please

[pvf94]

Girl calls me last night at about 8pm est....
Ask's me if I want to go see a play the next day at 7pm est (today)

I agreed to go.

She imed me on aim today....asked if I was still going..
I Told her to call me when she was ready to pick me up....she agreed to do so..


She has never flaked yet...been out with her 3-4 times in the past month

But she didnt call at all...not here to get me, and I havent heard a word...and the play started 45 minutes ago.

How do I handle the situation! =P

IF she call's later on, ignore it? yea?

Pretend nothing happened?

Fill me in Fellow Dj's.

 

[pvf94]

bumpy

 

[lgbs2004]

This is not about handle the situation....go for it, dude!!!! if she call you again, talk to her normally and see what happens....if she've invited you is because she want you........

 

[pvf94]

The thing is.....she seemingly blew me off... Read the post carefully

 

[lgbs2004]

Oh yeah, you're right sorry!!!! Forget about that chick....she's just a teaser!!!!

 

[musclyjerk]

You handle it by never speaking to her again. Ever.

Remove her from your phone and IM - she's out of your life.

She may want to make it 'cool' with you so she feels better about herself for blowing you off (probably for a better proposition out with her friends or some other guy), so don't give her the oppertunity.

Then chuckle to yourself if she makes attempts to contact you and eventually gives up feeling like you don't give a sh*t.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[pvf94]

You handle it by never speaking to her again. Ever.

Remove her from your phone and IM - she's out of your life.

She may want to make it 'cool' with you so she feels better about herself for blowing you off (probably for a better proposition out with her friends or some other guy), so don't give her the oppertunity.

Then chuckle to yourself if she makes attempts to contact you and eventually gives up feeling like you don't give a sh*t.

The Muscly Jerk

That would be kinda hard to do....Shes been my only real friend that is a girl for near 4 years.

 

[spider_007]

When she calls, don't let her off easy. I know guys on here have a thing about not showing that something bothers you but that only applys to when your about to scream and biach like a little girl....(or a guy who can't control him self)

When she calls;

you: "Wtf, happened....you can't even call and let me know, so that i don't waste my time???? what kind of **** is that????
her; Sorry sorry sorry....blah blah blah.....
You; I'll let you off easy this time, but next time you call if your not showing up so that i'm not sitting around like a loser wating for your azz, alright????


PROBLEM SOLVED.

 

[musclyjerk]

Real friends don't do what she did - get rid of her, I sack guy friends off for less. I've told 3 close male friends where to go in the last 16 months for acting like ignorant @ssholes. One I'd grown up with for 15 years who was my 'BEST' buddy. Don't take it off her. Show her the door.

You don't need people like that in your life.

She won't be anything but your friend either if you've been her 'friend' for 4 years.

Sorry buddy, I'm beginning to wonder what it is you actually want with this girl.. I didn't realise you were asking what you should do with a friend. I thought it was a prospect you've seen a few times and you wanted to sleep with or something.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[pvf94]

Real friends don't do what she did - get rid of her, I sack guy friends off for less. I've told 3 close male friends where to go in the last 16 months for acting like ignorant @ssholes. One I'd grown up with for 15 years who was my 'BEST' buddy. Don't take it off her. Show her the door.

You don't need people like that in your life.

She won't be anything but your friend either if you've been her 'friend' for 4 years.

Sorry buddy, I'm beginning to wonder what it is you actually want with this girl.. I didn't realise you were asking what you should do with a friend. I thought it was a prospect you've seen a few times and you wanted to sleep with or something.

The Muscly Jerk

Wouldnt mind hittin it :rockon:

 

[Klippymitch]

You have to call her up and ask her if she's okay. Ask her if everything is fine because your worried that something bad had to have happened for her not to have called you back.

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Wouldnt mind hittin it :rockon:

Then you should've......4 years ago.

Let her go bro. Who cares if she's your only female friend?
Since when do we seek female *friends*?

 

[musclyjerk]

Wouldnt mind hittin it :rockon:

Hehe, I feel you. What's the update on this situation pvf94, have you both talked since or has she tried to contact you?

The Muscly Jerk

 

[pvf94]

Hehe, I feel you. What's the update on this situation pvf94, have you both talked since or has she tried to contact you?

The Muscly Jerk

She was on aim at unusual times.....ummm I saw her come on once and waited for me to im her I bet... * i was away *

She left after about 45 minutes....than she got on late around 11:30....and this time she IM'd me, said "hey what are you up to" My away message was up, and she got the obvious auto response that she knew she would get. My away message simply said "later"

She waited for about 45 minutes again than logged off.....needless to say I didnt respond, I was Supposed to be afk.

Weird.

 

[musclyjerk]

Sounds good to me. Keep up the good work.

Don't you love it? Ha.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[pvf94]

Sounds good to me. Keep up the good work.

Don't you love it? Ha.

The Muscly Jerk

Im not seeing how it sounds good? She blew me off earlier in the evening and than tried to get my attention twice.....that doesnt sound good....please define what ya mean muscle's =P

 

[musclyjerk]

It sounds like you're doing the right thing - ignoring her.

Keep it up until she slinks off for good I say.

How very dare she!

The Muscly Jerk

 

[pvf94]

What if she bugs and bugs and bugs me.....does she deserve any of my attention?

 

[pvf94]

Update...


Everytime she gets on aim....she im's me...even if im away, The funny thing is....I always initiated the convo.


This is very amusing to say the least.....


rofl, As I was typing this she did it again

And im not responding....god is it wrong to feel good? When I should be feeling bad that she flaked on me?

 

[Klippymitch]

Update...


Everytime she gets on aim....she im's me...even if im away, The funny thing is....I always initiated the convo.


This is very amusing to say the least.....


rofl, As I was typing this she did it again

And im not responding....god is it wrong to feel good? When I should be feeling bad that she flaked on me?

Im starting to wonder if this was all planned by her. She could of flaked on you on purpose in an attempt to create interest in herself. If this is true she is now realizing she failed to create interest and is now trying to recover.