"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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advice please

nacho

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thers this chick, i had sex with her when i first met her. she knew i had a gf and she was seeing someone else so that was that. (it was like two years ago, we became friends ad still are to this day)

well ive been single for months and she became single not that long ago..

what are the chances that i can still get her? any advice on how i can go about it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nacho

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i was pretty druk, but she knows my tricks to get girls..
 

KillaCam

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Ask her out. It's logical and simple.

What other answer could you possibly expect?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nacho

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should i somehow bring it up or just make a move?
 

KillaCam

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nacho said:
should i somehow bring it up or just make a move?
Just go for the kill :up:

"You, me, date, done".
 

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what type of relationship are you looking to have with this female that gave it up to you when she had a man-now you want to get with her-let's say you do-a couple days from now you may be like some others here complaining and what not
 
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