"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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advice please

nacho

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thers this chick, i had sex with her when i first met her. she knew i had a gf and she was seeing someone else so that was that. (it was like two years ago, we became friends ad still are to this day)

well ive been single for months and she became single not that long ago..

what are the chances that i can still get her? any advice on how i can go about it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nacho

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i was pretty druk, but she knows my tricks to get girls..
 

KillaCam

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Ask her out. It's logical and simple.

What other answer could you possibly expect?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nacho

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should i somehow bring it up or just make a move?
 

KillaCam

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nacho said:
should i somehow bring it up or just make a move?
Just go for the kill :up:

"You, me, date, done".
 

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what type of relationship are you looking to have with this female that gave it up to you when she had a man-now you want to get with her-let's say you do-a couple days from now you may be like some others here complaining and what not
 
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