"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've been seeing this chick for a couple of months now. I'm 30, she's 27 - divorced with 2 kids. I really enjoy going out and having sex with her. I dig her personality, we laugh and talk on the phone a lot. I've thought about leaving her on as a keeper - so far so good. Anyhow, some things she said tonight have had me bothered:

Me: Your voice is sexy, you know I'm getting horny.

Her: I'm always horny, and they say I haven't even reached my sexual peak yet. I can't imagine it getting any worse than this!

Me: Oh good. Well, we'll just have to keep you at the top of your game.

Her: What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?

Me: I don't know... 69 I guess.

Her: Have you ever been with two girls at the same time?

Me: No... (pause) Have you ever been with girls?

Her: ... Yes. Before my kids I was young and crazy.

Me: Wow! Are you bisexual?

Her: I wouldn't say that, no... She did know how to lick me real good though.

Me: Have u ever been with two guys?

Her: Dammit, I was afraid you were going to ask that... Yes... That's probably the kinkiest thing I've ever done. Like I said, I was young and crazy. I'm more grown up now. I only have sex with someone I'm in a relationship with.

Me: Interesting... (Blah Blah Blah, then we had phone sex)


That just fvcking blows me away that she said she'd been with two guys. I never imagined this girl being like that. She seems like such a "good girl." I never thought of her as being slutty like that. However, I really appreciate her honesty. The fact that she has been with two guys before really bothers me. Although, it was a long time ago, so maybe it is of no concern. I don't know, it just fvcking bothers me... I still think she is a sweetheart, but everyone knows that most sane men don't want a LTR with a slutty wh0re. Keeper still?

Thoughts, suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FM 3321

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Does it really matter? She's with YOU now. You gotta be more open minded when it comes to women. They're not really angels like our mammas told us. It's not gonna help if you convey that you feel insecure about her being with two guys, get over it and leave what she did to the history books.


So anyway, throw out the idea of "good girls." None of them are "good" because they all like sex as much or even more than men do. Plus just because someone likes sex doesn't make them bad. It's only natural. :)
 

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Dude,

THINK ABOUT IT!!!! She is into threesums!!!!!!!!!! :up:

do you have any idea how rare women like her are?????? She is even into women!!!!

I would stay stick in there, don't start falling in love with her or anything. Use the opportunity, and lay her and one of her friends at the same time!
 
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