"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Snoodle

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I've been seeing this chick for a couple of months now. I'm 30, she's 27 - divorced with 2 kids. I really enjoy going out and having sex with her. I dig her personality, we laugh and talk on the phone a lot. I've thought about leaving her on as a keeper - so far so good. Anyhow, some things she said tonight have had me bothered:

Me: Your voice is sexy, you know I'm getting horny.

Her: I'm always horny, and they say I haven't even reached my sexual peak yet. I can't imagine it getting any worse than this!

Me: Oh good. Well, we'll just have to keep you at the top of your game.

Her: What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done?

Me: I don't know... 69 I guess.

Her: Have you ever been with two girls at the same time?

Me: No... (pause) Have you ever been with girls?

Her: ... Yes. Before my kids I was young and crazy.

Me: Wow! Are you bisexual?

Her: I wouldn't say that, no... She did know how to lick me real good though.

Me: Have u ever been with two guys?

Her: Dammit, I was afraid you were going to ask that... Yes... That's probably the kinkiest thing I've ever done. Like I said, I was young and crazy. I'm more grown up now. I only have sex with someone I'm in a relationship with.

Me: Interesting... (Blah Blah Blah, then we had phone sex)


That just fvcking blows me away that she said she'd been with two guys. I never imagined this girl being like that. She seems like such a "good girl." I never thought of her as being slutty like that. However, I really appreciate her honesty. The fact that she has been with two guys before really bothers me. Although, it was a long time ago, so maybe it is of no concern. I don't know, it just fvcking bothers me... I still think she is a sweetheart, but everyone knows that most sane men don't want a LTR with a slutty wh0re. Keeper still?

Thoughts, suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FM 3321

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Does it really matter? She's with YOU now. You gotta be more open minded when it comes to women. They're not really angels like our mammas told us. It's not gonna help if you convey that you feel insecure about her being with two guys, get over it and leave what she did to the history books.


So anyway, throw out the idea of "good girls." None of them are "good" because they all like sex as much or even more than men do. Plus just because someone likes sex doesn't make them bad. It's only natural. :)
 

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Dude,

THINK ABOUT IT!!!! She is into threesums!!!!!!!!!! :up:

do you have any idea how rare women like her are?????? She is even into women!!!!

I would stay stick in there, don't start falling in love with her or anything. Use the opportunity, and lay her and one of her friends at the same time!
 
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