Sebrings215
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alright another question...how do i show her whats she lost?! i aint friends with her on FB
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Advice please guys
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You no contact her. When she reaches out, you are busy. You do not reach out to her. You do not chase her. You let her come to you. When she does you have options. You have plates. If you can spare any time then you fit her in but you make it clear she is NOT a priority in your life what so ever
Sebrings215
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Cheers dude, i know for a fact she will be in contact again, either when things go wrong with her current bloke or she gets pissed. isit bad that i want that??
obviously we dont speak anymore via text or phone and i dont have her on social media but i do have her family on there. delete them off or keep them on??
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If you don't remove her, you will look and it will bother you... trust me on this one...
Family did nothing to you. If you get along with them i wouldn't have a problem having them in my social media. Her on the other hand, is it bad you want her current relationship to fail? I guess a little bit. Bottom line is get yourself so busy you don't care what her relationship status is. Date other women. Spin plates. Hit the gym. Do stuff for you, she shouldn't even cross your mind anymore.
When she is in contact again, she isn't a priority. She is completely on the back burner.
Remember you are the prize. If she doesn't see that, next.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I think he has. It's her family that is still in his social media.
What would be best if she has a sister and he continues to get along with her. All while nexting the ex and no contacting her
Sebrings215
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Cheers fellas, yeah I prob didn't explain properly, I don't have her on social media I removed her for that exact reason I found myself looking to much! But when we spoke at the party she seemed to know a lot about what I was up to, I guess she still keeps an eye on it through her family, her family don't think to highly of me after we split I guess they havnt removed me becuase she still looks!
I'm in the gym 6 days a week anyway which I why I know her bloke don't compare haha I'm just I guess a little disappointed she didn't mean what she said when she was drunk
I'm in the gym 6 days a week anyway which I why I know her bloke don't compare haha I'm just I guess a little disappointed she didn't mean what she said when she was drunk
Sebrings215
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Brothers!!! Its me again! Id say its good to speak to you all again but i only do when my ass is on fire! lol
Cut a long story short the advice you gave me last time was bang on, sacked that bird off and spent the time since spinning plates and focusing on work and the gym!
but here we are again lol i met a girl through a mutual friend and hit it off with her straight away, shes great, shes funny and shes laid back AF! not spun the plate yet but she came out for my birthday this weekend and left with a bloke (her supposed friend) but lied to me about where she went. I knew the bouncers at the club and they filled me in on the truth, we argued and then she text me Monday morning apologizing for lying, we agreed to meet up and clear the air! I took her out for dinner last night, had a great night, chatted till we got kicked out when they closed and then dropped her off!
We are meant to meeting up again this Saturday but F me sideways shes so laid back shes impossible to read, she text me this morning but i haven't messaged her back yet, thing is shes the type of bird that if i don't text her back she wont bother me and pester me but that makes me think she might not be that keen!
so hit me with you best advice on this bird, the laid back bird isnt someone ive come across before so i dont know how to play the situation
Cut a long story short the advice you gave me last time was bang on, sacked that bird off and spent the time since spinning plates and focusing on work and the gym!
but here we are again lol i met a girl through a mutual friend and hit it off with her straight away, shes great, shes funny and shes laid back AF! not spun the plate yet but she came out for my birthday this weekend and left with a bloke (her supposed friend) but lied to me about where she went. I knew the bouncers at the club and they filled me in on the truth, we argued and then she text me Monday morning apologizing for lying, we agreed to meet up and clear the air! I took her out for dinner last night, had a great night, chatted till we got kicked out when they closed and then dropped her off!
We are meant to meeting up again this Saturday but F me sideways shes so laid back shes impossible to read, she text me this morning but i haven't messaged her back yet, thing is shes the type of bird that if i don't text her back she wont bother me and pester me but that makes me think she might not be that keen!
so hit me with you best advice on this bird, the laid back bird isnt someone ive come across before so i dont know how to play the situation
Spin more plates. This one is showing minimum interest if any.
Red flag. She lies.
Do your thing. If this new girl becomes a plate then she becomes a plate. In the meantime stop puttingall your focus on her