Advice on whether or not to tell a friend he's dating a potential succubus.

[Kotaix]

Hi all,

I have a friend (28 or 29 yo) who is recently out of a marriage with a woman who basically dominated him and was a royal pain in his ass whilst flirting with everyone within view (me included) and she eventually fvcked a few guys from her work. He dumped her after her infidelity got out.

Now that he's progressed beyond that skank, he jumped immediately into exclusively dating a new chick who makes the spidey senses tingle. She's smart enough to pretend she's smart, but not smart enough to actually back it up. There is some SJW/Feminism going on as well, but mostly because she's a joiner and not a thinker.

I'm not the only one in our friend circle to think that he's falling into the exact same toxic situation he was in. It's glaringly obvious he is 100% in her frame.

So the question is: Should I talk to him about it, or just let him fall again and learn on his own? If so, how do I broach the topic?

 

[marmel75]

If he doesn't wamt to learn on his own then nothing will help him. He will become defensive and blame you for attacking him

 

[wolf]

It's tricky...

Life will always try to show you what you need to see when you need to see it. First a small jab in the arm.. then a slap in the face...finally a kick in the balls. Your friend has been royally slapped in the face and most likely about to have his balls kicked according to your senses.

Your friend is on a path that he himself chose at some point. It is crucial to his own development that he walks his own path and draws his own conclusions.

As tempting as it is it is best to let him make his own mistakes. If he fails to read the glaring red flags then that's on him.

Those of us here who have been with a succubus will tell the same story. They get into your head and plant a seed of doubt. You will doubt your senses, your judgement and your sanity. Isolation is the aim of the game to underpin her own low self worth and to imprison him in her own personal Hell.

Leave him to find his own solution as it will be you that gets burned in the end. Stay well out of it.

All the best.

 

[GrowingPains]

Lmfao wth...

Succubus -

1. a female demon believed to have sexual intercourse with sleeping men.

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You can warn him. But realize what other people here have said. He will only be receptive if he is willing to hear it. And if he isn't, you will be seen as the problem.

If you want to advise him, think about leading him to the realization. Ask him questions that you think make it clear to what you think she is. But never state it yourself. Explore it with him and see what he thinks, if he shares certain perceptions and dive deeper until you understand what he really thinks of her after logical discourse/questioning.

 

[Kotaix]

It's tricky...

Life will always try to show you what you need to see when you need to see it. First a small jab in the arm.. then a slap in the face...finally a kick in the balls. Your friend has been royally slapped in the face and most likely about to have his balls kicked according to your senses.

Your friend is on a path that he himself chose at some point. It is crucial to his own development that he walks his own path and draws his own conclusions.

As tempting as it is it is best to let him make his own mistakes. If he fails to read the glaring red flags then that's on him.

Those of us here who have been with a succubus will tell the same story. They get into your head and plant a seed of doubt. You will doubt your senses, your judgement and your sanity. Isolation is the aim of the game to underpin her own low self worth and to imprison him in her own personal Hell.

Leave him to find his own solution as it will be you that gets burned in the end. Stay well out of it.

All the best.

Isolation is indeed what's happening. I seriously hope he doesn't get her pregnant....

thanks for the input

 

[sosousage]

Hi all,

I have a friend (28 or 29 yo) who is recently out of a marriage with a woman who basically dominated him and was a royal pain in his ass whilst flirting with everyone within view (me included) and she eventually fvcked a few guys from her work. He dumped her after her infidelity got out.

Now that he's progressed beyond that skank, he jumped immediately into exclusively dating a new chick who makes the spidey senses tingle. She's smart enough to pretend she's smart, but not smart enough to actually back it up. There is some SJW/Feminism going on as well, but mostly because she's a joiner and not a thinker.

I'm not the only one in our friend circle to think that he's falling into the exact same toxic situation he was in. It's glaringly obvious he is 100% in her frame.

So the question is: Should I talk to him about it, or just let him fall again and learn on his own? If so, how do I broach the topic?

just ask him if 'what if it will be like before?'

 

[jaymbrs]

My best friend is like this. Nothing I've said to him has made him see straight. All you can do is just shake your head and ask that he doesn't talk to you about their problems once they start developing.

 

[Kotaix]

I got a good hour alone with my buddy. I poked around the issue and it sounds like he's at least aware that she's probably not wife material.

He loses frame when she's around tho. It's literally like watching the south park episode where the succubus sings her song and chef joins in and repeats it. If you're doing this, guys, you've lost frame.

She is also a rich kid whose parents paid for 100% of her art history degree. Then she complains about making seattle minimum wage and talks about everyone who brings their kids to the preschool as 'bougie'. Essentially a hypocrite.

 

[Roober]

I wish buddies spoke up about my ex wife. That's what friends are for! You dont have to tell him to dump her or that shes a succubus, but pointing out reasons why they may not be a good fit may be okay.

You know your friend best, so you should know the best way to communicate with him.

 

[DreamAgain]

I would tell him, it may not be your business necessarily but if he's your good friend, he would want to hear what you have to say.

 

[Spaz]

I'd tell him and I'd expect him to extend the same courtesy when I'm the same.

That's how true friendship works.

 

[greatsnake]

I’d tell him if I really considered him my friend.

 

[Tilex]

You have to catch her in action.
Use video or audio recording to capture it.
Sometimes people need to see proof of evidence before believing mischievous intentions.

By the way, I firmly believe recently divorced men out of marriages are blue pilled again.
The only way to be red pilled is to choose the red pill.
He needs to wake up and improve himself voluntarily.

 

[backseatjuan]

@Kotaix You should introduce him to the book of pook and the dj bible and the forums of course. A lot of sht going on the internet, like MGTOW. You being here you should do it properly. Tell him straight up your woman is not long term consideration, give him cd or usb flash drive with the book of pook complete and downloaded in pdf and two links, dj bible and to the forums. Consider your job done after this.

 

[Kotaix]

I doubt she would let him read anything like the books. She's effectively moved in to his house. He does seem somewhat red pill aware, he could just do better. I'll keep poking the bear