I've had plenty of LTRs with girls I've banged on the second date. And 0 with girls who gave it up on the first night. Some have hung around for a month or two that was it. I make a 2 fold conclusion. The party sloots are not up for being a girlfriend. And using your game skills to f*** a good girl on the first date sends her into this I'm a good girl but I'm a s*** death spiral in her head. As for the OP s question, this was just a casual f*** so send her a hey let's get together and have fun text in a couple of weeks.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Advice on what to text this girl I banged last night in my car.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
meh, as long as she's faithful and clean, the faster and easier the better imo
PantyWhisperer
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I'm not sure those two sets of things go together very often though, at least early on. Now if I'm in an LTR and within it, the woman makes getting sex fast and easy, that is optimal. But if it's fast and easy on the front end for you, it likely will be the same for others.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
personally, i always just thought it was a sign of how much the girl likes sex, if she has sex with you fast and early then she must clearly like it a whole lot. but if she wants to wait a while, she probably doesn't like it too much. (obviously it's all relative, but if a girl doesn't have sex til date 4 i'd bet money that she has much less of a sex drive than the girl who gives in up on date 2, but as long as she doesn't make you wait til date 10 then her sex drive is probably within normal deviations)
ideally you want a girl who likes sex as much as possible for a relationship so that you can get laid all the time(the last thing you want is a girl doing it for you, if she was only having lots of sex because it was the "honeymoon phase" of the relationship then you'll have a problem)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I like to hunt immigrants being an immigrant myself. I like the ones who been here a long time but still have the old country values. So in my experience generally if the girl is Eastern European, Asian or South American giving it up on the first date is not the norm. I wouldn't necessarily redflag her for it but it would raise a question mark on my mind.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
*takes diligent notes*
that'll be useful to make note of.
in the event of getting laid on the first dateyou'd probably just have to figure out if everyone gets it on the first date or if you're somehow special, generally lean towards the former in these cases but don't rule out the latter