I've had plenty of LTRs with girls I've banged on the second date. And 0 with girls who gave it up on the first night. Some have hung around for a month or two that was it. I make a 2 fold conclusion. The party sloots are not up for being a girlfriend. And using your game skills to f*** a good girl on the first date sends her into this I'm a good girl but I'm a s*** death spiral in her head. As for the OP s question, this was just a casual f*** so send her a hey let's get together and have fun text in a couple of weeks.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Advice on what to text this girl I banged last night in my car.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
meh, as long as she's faithful and clean, the faster and easier the better imo
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I'm not sure those two sets of things go together very often though, at least early on. Now if I'm in an LTR and within it, the woman makes getting sex fast and easy, that is optimal. But if it's fast and easy on the front end for you, it likely will be the same for others.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
personally, i always just thought it was a sign of how much the girl likes sex, if she has sex with you fast and early then she must clearly like it a whole lot. but if she wants to wait a while, she probably doesn't like it too much. (obviously it's all relative, but if a girl doesn't have sex til date 4 i'd bet money that she has much less of a sex drive than the girl who gives in up on date 2, but as long as she doesn't make you wait til date 10 then her sex drive is probably within normal deviations)
ideally you want a girl who likes sex as much as possible for a relationship so that you can get laid all the time(the last thing you want is a girl doing it for you, if she was only having lots of sex because it was the "honeymoon phase" of the relationship then you'll have a problem)
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I like to hunt immigrants being an immigrant myself. I like the ones who been here a long time but still have the old country values. So in my experience generally if the girl is Eastern European, Asian or South American giving it up on the first date is not the norm. I wouldn't necessarily redflag her for it but it would raise a question mark on my mind.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
*takes diligent notes*
that'll be useful to make note of.
in the event of getting laid on the first dateyou'd probably just have to figure out if everyone gets it on the first date or if you're somehow special, generally lean towards the former in these cases but don't rule out the latter