"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok have been seeing this chick for a few months on and off. A month ago we ran into each other again and decided to give it s go. Nothing crazy just hanging out going out together. I was with her yesterday and another guy. (hes fat and ugly) texted her and said hey what are you up to? We were both looking at her phone as he texted. She didnt hesitate or make any moves to hide it. I said whose that? She said to me "What I'm not aloud to have friends" I said I dont give a **** you can talk to whoever you want to. But question is should I be leery of this? I've seen them both in pictures together and her best friend dates his best friend. And yes I should of never even mentioned it but I fvcked up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's red flags here. She could have baggage. When you get to text's remember home phone #. Good move is call collect.
 
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Don't worry about her. Setup your source of reliable puzzy if you don't have that in place. It's crucial to your game.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You said in your OP "you're just hanging out" so what do you care who texts her? It really is none of your business if you're not exclusive, anymore than if she drilled you if "Sally" sent you a text. You don't own her.

Be a confident DJ and employ the IDGAF attitude instead of being all paranoid about who's texting her.

And the advice your getting from SS members about nexting her because she got a f*ucking text from another guy, these are probably the same SS posters who are currently dating their right hand. Next her over WHAT??? Too f*cuking sensitive...
 
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Your getting hung up on females. Me and my son are used car buying. He keeps getting hung up on one car. I tell him "son, don't get hung up on these cars. They're a dime a dozen. ". If a bytch isn't fvcking or on the way to it then she gets no time. Focus on your self improvement.
 
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ehh she is playing games she hasnt responded in a week. I knew she was a fvcking tease lol. All good got some puzzy lined up for tonight
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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