"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok have been seeing this chick for a few months on and off. A month ago we ran into each other again and decided to give it s go. Nothing crazy just hanging out going out together. I was with her yesterday and another guy. (hes fat and ugly) texted her and said hey what are you up to? We were both looking at her phone as he texted. She didnt hesitate or make any moves to hide it. I said whose that? She said to me "What I'm not aloud to have friends" I said I dont give a **** you can talk to whoever you want to. But question is should I be leery of this? I've seen them both in pictures together and her best friend dates his best friend. And yes I should of never even mentioned it but I fvcked up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There's red flags here. She could have baggage. When you get to text's remember home phone #. Good move is call collect.
 
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Don't worry about her. Setup your source of reliable puzzy if you don't have that in place. It's crucial to your game.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You said in your OP "you're just hanging out" so what do you care who texts her? It really is none of your business if you're not exclusive, anymore than if she drilled you if "Sally" sent you a text. You don't own her.

Be a confident DJ and employ the IDGAF attitude instead of being all paranoid about who's texting her.

And the advice your getting from SS members about nexting her because she got a f*ucking text from another guy, these are probably the same SS posters who are currently dating their right hand. Next her over WHAT??? Too f*cuking sensitive...
 
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Your getting hung up on females. Me and my son are used car buying. He keeps getting hung up on one car. I tell him "son, don't get hung up on these cars. They're a dime a dozen. ". If a bytch isn't fvcking or on the way to it then she gets no time. Focus on your self improvement.
 
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ehh she is playing games she hasnt responded in a week. I knew she was a fvcking tease lol. All good got some puzzy lined up for tonight
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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