Advice on Soft next girlfriend?

[Kdent]

Need some opinions. First time doing this.

My girlfriend and I have been going through a rough patch. She's holding a lot of resentment towards me as to how I spoke about her to my friends before we starting dating (she went through my phone when I was sleeping) over a year ago.

We haven't been intimate for around a month and I've given up trying as I'm getting tired of the rejection. I've decided to go back to my apartment and just do my own thing for a few weeks. Ideally I would like to not see her and just see where things went however we will be leaving the country soon to go travelling.

In the last few days I've left her to contact me first and she has done. The second day she phoned me while I was at work several times and when no one picked up she messaged me on Facebook asking why no one was answering. Over the next few days she has messaged me in fb (my mobile isn't working atm). I've just made small talk, replied to her questions etc.

And now today I haven't replied to her at all. What should I do in this situation? Continue to ignore her? Make small talk?

Thanks in advance.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

What happened to men being direct with their women and saying "I want sex"? Damn. I would just tell her the cliche "it's just not working out" line or "I just don't think it was meant to be" if I really didn't feel like dealing with her bs. Otherwise just tell her you don't like her anymore because she's annoying you.

 

[dude99]

I would just tell her to get her things out of your house/appartment and say it's over. This issue will never go away. She will treat you like crap and use this as her trump card every time

Tell her your decision is final and it's over. She will ask why and try to negotiate and change your mind. Do not give her a reason. Only say it is over and my decision is final. Just stick to that and tell her to get her stuff out.

Hope you got trip cancellation insurance.

 

[marmel75]

What the hell are you staying with her for? I'd end it ASAP.

 

[Kdent]

Thanks for the advice guys. Unfortunately everything has been paid, up to 5k worth and I've already handed my notice in for work. Looks like ill stick the travels out and be done with it when we get back.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Thanks for the advice guys. Unfortunately everything has been paid, up to 5k worth and I've already handed my notice in for work. Looks like ill stick the travels out and be done with it when we get back.

Personally I'd do the same ... In fact I'd make it a bit of a game! Obviously your passed the stage of caring what she thinks! I'd just go and do my own thing .. Enjoy yourself and lots of flirting haha

 

[ubercat]

Well if the trips locked in try and get as much sex out of her as possible on it. Do her in the ass, try and get a threesome going have total fun with it. Be completely Machiavellian and tell her whatever she needs to hear for you to get the puss. And don't feel guilty for a second remember most woman start preparing their branch swing 6 months before they break up with you.