"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advice on seductress

braek12

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Alright, so I met a girl because my friends sister tried to hook her up with my friend and she liked me instead. She came over to my place a few days later and then the day after that I went to her place. Both times were just making out for 4+ hours (she pushed me away from her naughty parts!! drove me crazy)
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waited a day, called her and asked her to dinner and she said after family stuff, but had to cancel cause that took too long. Then she sent me an apologetic text message later, expressing an interest in hanging out at some other time.

Next day we had a text message conversation, I may have talked a little too much but I avoided looking too bad. She said she would call me later that night but she didnt. Day after I sent a text saying just "hey", kinda hoping she would use the opportunity to explain herself but nothing. What is going on? Shes driving me crazy with hot/cold stuff! Plus she was always the one calling but her texts have dropped off of the face of the earth. Did I get nexted? Should I next her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't next to her, but she's playing onto you. Sounds like she's pushing and pulling you in to keep your fire for her going.

This is when you start edging yourself off a bit and making yourself a bit less unavailable, for instance if she calls to chill next time tell her you're busy but we'll make plans sometime soon.

Throw her off, I got a hunch that she already knows your pattern or that you'll say 'yes' to every opportunity she presents herself.

Don't supplicate, you're the prize not her.
 

braek12

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man i hate manipulative women and how they are the only ones capable of making me fall in (one sided) love
 
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