"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Advice on seductress

braek12

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Alright, so I met a girl because my friends sister tried to hook her up with my friend and she liked me instead. She came over to my place a few days later and then the day after that I went to her place. Both times were just making out for 4+ hours (she pushed me away from her naughty parts!! drove me crazy)
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waited a day, called her and asked her to dinner and she said after family stuff, but had to cancel cause that took too long. Then she sent me an apologetic text message later, expressing an interest in hanging out at some other time.

Next day we had a text message conversation, I may have talked a little too much but I avoided looking too bad. She said she would call me later that night but she didnt. Day after I sent a text saying just "hey", kinda hoping she would use the opportunity to explain herself but nothing. What is going on? Shes driving me crazy with hot/cold stuff! Plus she was always the one calling but her texts have dropped off of the face of the earth. Did I get nexted? Should I next her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't next to her, but she's playing onto you. Sounds like she's pushing and pulling you in to keep your fire for her going.

This is when you start edging yourself off a bit and making yourself a bit less unavailable, for instance if she calls to chill next time tell her you're busy but we'll make plans sometime soon.

Throw her off, I got a hunch that she already knows your pattern or that you'll say 'yes' to every opportunity she presents herself.

Don't supplicate, you're the prize not her.
 

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man i hate manipulative women and how they are the only ones capable of making me fall in (one sided) love
 
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