"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Advice....on relationship starting out....!!!...!!!

godjwood

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What's your advice on a girl that says she likes you but is scared about a relationship but will give it a try??? Just starting to hangout more when she gets home for Xmas. She's coming to an xmas party w/me 2nd night she's back but say's she's busy the rest of the week, and has promised ppl. she'd hangout with them.....?? She knows i'm going to Europe for 20 days over New Yr's, and said 'she wishes i was here' .......Advice guys????
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nameless

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Honestly it could mean a number of things. I could also tell you what your hoping to hear.

One thing you have to learn about women is not to trust what they say - but what they do.

Read the DJ Bible (if you already have than apply), take the initiative to take things further.

She how she responds to your ACTIONS with her ACTIONS and then you will know.
 

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Just roll with it and try not to overanalyze before you make a decision. Follow your gut, then learn from the mistakes you will inevitably make.
 

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I found a kickass Gift.... She likes Shamu so give her a kid's book on Shamu, then i found Chocolate shot glasses....www.urbanoutfitters.com also Peppermint one's. And make her dinner then i don't have to go all out on a date.
 
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