"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice....on relationship starting out....!!!...!!!

godjwood

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What's your advice on a girl that says she likes you but is scared about a relationship but will give it a try??? Just starting to hangout more when she gets home for Xmas. She's coming to an xmas party w/me 2nd night she's back but say's she's busy the rest of the week, and has promised ppl. she'd hangout with them.....?? She knows i'm going to Europe for 20 days over New Yr's, and said 'she wishes i was here' .......Advice guys????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nameless

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Honestly it could mean a number of things. I could also tell you what your hoping to hear.

One thing you have to learn about women is not to trust what they say - but what they do.

Read the DJ Bible (if you already have than apply), take the initiative to take things further.

She how she responds to your ACTIONS with her ACTIONS and then you will know.
 

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Just roll with it and try not to overanalyze before you make a decision. Follow your gut, then learn from the mistakes you will inevitably make.
 

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I found a kickass Gift.... She likes Shamu so give her a kid's book on Shamu, then i found Chocolate shot glasses....www.urbanoutfitters.com also Peppermint one's. And make her dinner then i don't have to go all out on a date.
 
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