"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Advice....on relationship starting out....!!!...!!!

godjwood

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What's your advice on a girl that says she likes you but is scared about a relationship but will give it a try??? Just starting to hangout more when she gets home for Xmas. She's coming to an xmas party w/me 2nd night she's back but say's she's busy the rest of the week, and has promised ppl. she'd hangout with them.....?? She knows i'm going to Europe for 20 days over New Yr's, and said 'she wishes i was here' .......Advice guys????
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nameless

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Honestly it could mean a number of things. I could also tell you what your hoping to hear.

One thing you have to learn about women is not to trust what they say - but what they do.

Read the DJ Bible (if you already have than apply), take the initiative to take things further.

She how she responds to your ACTIONS with her ACTIONS and then you will know.
 

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Just roll with it and try not to overanalyze before you make a decision. Follow your gut, then learn from the mistakes you will inevitably make.
 

godjwood

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I found a kickass Gift.... She likes Shamu so give her a kid's book on Shamu, then i found Chocolate shot glasses....www.urbanoutfitters.com also Peppermint one's. And make her dinner then i don't have to go all out on a date.
 
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