"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dicc Blownoff

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Saturday night, met up with a past fling. Her friend wanted to go home, so she drove 30 mins to drop her off and I figured she would just stay home since it was far away from the place we were at. She texted me saying she was coming back so I assumed she was for sure down. Anyways, hours go by we have a good time, I drive her home (she wasn't ok to drive) we have sex. She texts me saying she had a fun time and hopes to do it again soon.

My question now. How do I go about without sounding needy asking her out again this weekend? And when should I text her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dustmuffin

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Just say I'm going to do x and she should come along . Don't text a bunch just ask her out. Wait a couple days to do it.
 

RangerMIke

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She texts you and says she hope to see you again soon. She is chasing you, so you make a date. When a chick reaches out to you she is expecting you to do something. The longer you wait the weaker you look.

Had she not texted you, then you would wait a few days because you should have other chicks that want to spend time with you. If you don't have other chicks, then go get them. But if you don't I suppose you will have to follow some PUA BS and 'pretend' you are in demand. You want advice on how to pretend... read Cory Wayne's book. It's just about the best bvll sh!t cr@p out there if you have to follow something.
 
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beforeimgone

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Saturday night, met up with a past fling. Her friend wanted to go home, so she drove 30 mins to drop her off and I figured she would just stay home since it was far away from the place we were at. She texted me saying she was coming back so I assumed she was for sure down. Anyways, hours go by we have a good time, I drive her home (she wasn't ok to drive) we have sex. She texts me saying she had a fun time and hopes to do it again soon.

My question now. How do I go about without sounding needy asking her out again this weekend? And when should I text her?
Text her the next day and mention that last night was cool. Let her know you will hit her up as soon as your schedule "slows down a little". Don't text her for one two or three days. Schedule a meet up no later than two days away. On the day of meet up, confirm the time and place.

This gives her time to build you up in her head, tear you down in her head, or forget about you. I set alarms so I don't forget to text them
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sounds to me, like you need more than mere advice.
 
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