"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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Just had a quick question on how you would respond to the following:

Asked an HB9 out, she said "absolutely :)", then told her I was free Weds or Sat night which was better? Responded she needed to check with sitter, can I let you know? I said yeah, that's cool.

This was on Monday, now Thursday and haven't heard from her. Was planning on just waiting til this Monday coming up if I don't hear from her and then tease her about it...

Would you wait or text back before Saturday? Not looking to be one of those lame @ss dudes that acts like he is begging the girl to go out...her IL level was extremely high, gave me her number without me asking, always responds to my texts quickly and has told me she thinks I am good looking and very confident...

Text back or wait?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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foreverAFC

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dont you have a wife and kid, how do you have time do be a husband and father and go out with all these different women at the same time?
 
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How about letting her get in contact with you? After all the ball is in her court isn't it?
 
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