"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advice on how to proceed?

ohiobohio518

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I drunkenly made out with this girl a month ago, and I just took her out to dinner. Reason for the month-long hiatus? A) Our schedules didn't line up. and B) my friend did digging and concluded that she had "Friend-zoned" me.

The reason I overcame (B) was because, from the signs she was giving me, I just couldn't 100% believe what she told me. So I tried to test my luck, and yesterday we had a good dinner at a nice place for 2 hours, and I don't think she would do that with a friend. I didn't kiss close however.

What should be my logical next step?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Drummer give me a nice power thump,
Bass and Lead ,it time to play with rocker jeans,
Stratocaster me with the legendary guitar,
here we go, ooooh, let the audio go, wheeeeeeeee!

With her you getting as high as paper planes
and your delusional like riding liquid trains,
she thinks of you as her good old bone,
you my ally have the love avenue closed,
patient construction has got you friend zoned ,
better leave before you hear the gloomy bells,
that announce the "LJBF" thunderstorms,
but wait, theirs a weather forecast change,
she gave you interests signs and good dinner,
play your cards right, oh wow, right on,
and she might be your next sweet dessert,
but for that you gotta have her eyes in a shimmer,
but only if you show her how good you cook,
and make her an "im an alpha male" casserole,
straight out of the Don Juan's recipe book,
and i added this lyric because recipe book rhymes with PooK!
 

ohiobohio518

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you're hilarious.

im inferring from your message that you meant something like:
you got LJBF'd but now you might have a chance. go read the bible.

(i have)
 
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