"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Advice on delaying/resisting women temporarily in general needed!

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SoSuaveDude

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I'm 19 and start a two year nursing program this coming spring semester. I am excited and know that i will have to work my butt off, neglect friends and activities at times, but i hope it will pay off. The problem is, If you were in my position, where you aren't granted much time for personal activities, or friendships outside of clinicals, and studying, wouldn't you feel a bit isolated? I'm 19 and know that i can make it through this program, but i worry that i might be missing out. Some people say early twenties are the best years of your life so have fun! (but ofcourse others say they wished they focused on school too). Not trying to compare to my generation, but do you think i'm doing the right thing by temporarily disregarding females and acquiring a career lol?

Man i'm going to feel lonely throughout this two year curriculum lol... Any advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can any 25+ y/o's pitch in. don't hold back, any tips and outlooks are greatly appreciated.
 
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Your exactly where you should be, focusing on your career. The majority of your social circle will come from the other people in your program, they'll be going through the same thing you are. Enjoy the process. Even though your time will be tight its still good to incorporate some healthy practices for renewal. I'd recommend combining a healthy diet with these

Weight Training
Yoga
Pilates
Brazilian Jujitsu or other Martial art
 
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